Chinese Puzzle: Who Should Pay the Bill ?

Paying the Dutch way is easy: each person pays his or her own bill. Paying the Chinese way is hard to explain. Chinese friends sometimes pay Dutch, but often the Chinese way. The person who pays for everyone's bill gains the honor. You should fight for the honor, but you should also let someone else have that honor. Sounds contradictory, doesn't it ? Relax if you are a woman. Just let the men fight for the honor. Don't worry. In the end, the bills will be all paid one way or another.