Showing posts with label happiness. Show all posts
Showing posts with label happiness. Show all posts

Saturday, April 30, 2016

What is Success in Life?

A friend posted 11 rules, or life lessons, according to Bill Gates in Facebook.

My thoughts and comments:

What Bill Gates said is generally true but not absolutely true. Rule #11 is sort of funny. It says if you born poor, it's not your mistake. But if you die poor, it is your mistake.  

Have you heard of this Chinese saying? What a person's life is like, or whether it will be successful or not, depends on these 5 determining factors: birth, luck, feng shui, karma (charitable work or helping others) and education.

Indeed life is not fair. Only death is fair (everybody dies). If you were born to poor parents in a poor and backward country, you would face much greater challenge in life. If you were born to rich parents in an advanced country, you would gain much advantage to succeed in life. Still, Bill Gates' advice or life lessons are good references to think about.

My philosophy is that whatever card life gave you at the beginning, you just have to play the game the best you can. Got an Ace? Good for you. Got a 5 only? You still have to play the game and never give up.

What is success in life? There are so many different definitions. To most people, it means money, power and fame. To some spiritual people, it simply means health and happiness. To me, success in life is not about money and material possessions. Peace !

Wednesday, February 17, 2016

Fame (2)

On July 31, 2014, I wrote about Fame in this blog. Here are more of my thoughts and comments:

Being famous is not a bad thing, but it is not a 100% good thing either. Being famous gives you many advantages but also some disadvantages. The more famous you are, the more privacy you'll lose. 

Some famous people have to disguise themselves in order to go to public places. People who are not famous are more free to go wherever they want, and don't have to worry about being mobbed or stared at. 

Many famous people just stay within a circle of friends in private settings only. They seldom or never go to public places.They often have to worry about how they look, where they go, what they do, what people they are with, and on and on. 

One can be happy and successful without being famous. Fame is not something absolutely necessary for a good life. Health is. 

Fast Edi Thoughts and Comments

Monday, February 8, 2016

Year of The Monkey

Wish you happy and healthy in the New Year of the Monkey.
Being happy is being successful,
Being healthy is the most beautiful.

Saturday, August 29, 2015

Foods and Drinks

Some foods and drinks give you pleasure but not health. Others give you health but not pleasure. Some give you both pleasure and health. Be wise in making your choice. Enjoy !!!

Sunday, May 10, 2015

Happy Mother's Day

Happiness is the arrival of Mother and the departure of Mother-in-Law.

Happy Mother's Day !!!

Thursday, February 12, 2015

Stop Looking For Happiness

Stop looking for happiness, and you will be happy. It is already within yourself.

Saturday, November 29, 2014

Burt Reynolds and What is Success ?

In the news, also posted by a friend in Facebook, Burt Reynolds, the famous movie star of the 70s, is apparently broke and is selling off his stuff. 

I feel sad to hear about this. He was a big star. However, he is not alone. Many people succeeded in beating poverty, but failed to manage wealth. As comedian Bill Hicks said, "It's just a ride." 

This is what I think: a successful person is not necessarily rich and famous. A successful person is one who is able to live happily under any conditions in life, whether rich or poor, famous or unknown, married or single, powerful or common, and is able to do what he or she loves to do. Enjoy your ride !!!

Saturday, July 26, 2014

Be Happy

The blustering storm of tomorrow will find a way to become yesterday's gentle rain. Only yesterday is gone, and tomorrow there is always another singer with another song (from my poem Walking Through Desert).
Be happy here and now!

Tuesday, March 11, 2014

Cancer

An easy way to get cancer: after a hot meal, you drink ice-cold water. Please don't do that. Cut down the consumption of red meat. Eat more fruits and vegetables. Wish you all healthy and happy ! 

Wednesday, January 1, 2014

Happy New Year

Wishing you all the best in the New Year of 2014 !!!

Friday, August 2, 2013

Happy and Free

Ah ... what is better than being happy and free ? Be yourself while respecting the differences of others. Peace !

Sunday, June 16, 2013

Happy Father's Day

Fathers of the World: if your children don't say Happy Father's Day to you, still say Happy Father's Day to yourself and to your father. Be happy, no matter what !!!

Thursday, February 14, 2013

Happy Valentine

Happy Valentine's Day ! May you find love in a song and in real life <3 :)

Tuesday, January 1, 2013

Happy New Year 2013

Happy New Year. All the Best in 2013. Live, Laugh, Love !!!

Wednesday, September 19, 2012

Be Happy, Be Yourself

Happiness from within yourself is basic. Happiness from others is a bonus. True happiness cannot come entirely from something external. It always comes from within yourself, only to be enhanced, echoed and intensified by something external. Be happy. Be yourself !

Monday, July 30, 2012

Be Yourself

Be yourself. Don't pretend to be someone else. That's the only way to be happy.

Saturday, April 21, 2012

Don't Kid Yourself

Don't kid yourself. Fake stuff is not good. Always get the real thing: health, friendship, freedom, truth, love, beauty, peace, happiness, everything. Good luck !!!

Sunday, June 26, 2011

Future

The argument about the future is rather futile, especially on a personal level. The future of every living human being is the same, which is DEATH. The big question is not about this life, but what will happen or not happen after our physical death. There are certainly many theories or propositions available for you to choose from. These theories and propositions came from many different sources, including philosophy, metaphysics, religion and science. It is up to yourself to pick the one that makes the most sense to you. You can even create your own theory and proposition. Meanwhile, before the future arrives, please enjoy your life, the here and now, and be very happy !!!

Friday, July 30, 2010

Health

Before anything else,Health is the most important.You can't be happy if you are sick, either mentally, emotionally or physically.

Thursday, December 17, 2009

Happiness

There is no one specific reason for being happy. If you insist on giving a universal reason, then maybe happiness is simply being alive and conscious. Try helping others, fulfilling yourself and being creative; I believe they can enhance the happiness that already exists within yourself.